Yes, I agree..... we often compare our loved ones to others when they leave us needing.... from them.

I think you just answered your own WHY? - You are really needing and wanting your husband to give unto you, but when he does not, your mind seeks mentally to keep your heart safe from physical temptation.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - (((( hugs ))))

P.S.
When is the last time you and your husband talked about any of your upsets or needs? - or had a Date your Mate night?