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Originally Posted by Bipolar1Disorder
As a man I can see what happened here and I know why. We men are pigs and will go to any length to get that perfect sexual encounter and if it's not right most men will work little by little to make it right even if it means getting another women. We men don't fall into love but we fall into lust and our sexual needs when and where it applies. A male heterosexual thinks about sex all day long from puberty to late adult. With gay men it's even worse and it's a constant sexual thing for the male human.
Maybe it was a sexual thing for him and nothing more. I only say that from experience since some women are prone to read more into things than there actually is. We men go to great lengths to hide our true sexual feeling from you women. That way we have the upper hand and control over what happens in the bedroom. And if we are not happy with such activities, then we will end a relationship rather than go thru bedroom torture ect.
Unless of course your man was completely satisfied with you sexually in which case then why would he or you end the relationship? OK now, I have
said enough and I'm starting to get a head ache, so think about what I said about thinking about it.  |
Bedroom torture gave me a giggle too... Thank you for showing your sensitive side and offering the man's view. And after reading, I'm wondering am I a man? I've been horrible about using men for sex and leading them on... idk why... i was horny and didnt really know what I was wanting. it's not fair to do to anybody. I don't do it anymore. I guess really it goes both ways, women and men can both be focused on sex or relationship, or both when you find the right match in space and time.
I think that's the key Moosey, the sex was awesome for both of you but not the right time for him for a relationship. You WILL find the ultimate combo of great sex and close committed relationship. But we never know when... just have to wait, but it will be worth the wait.
Maybe if you get the job at the particular store... omg there's really hot guys working at those types of stores... ok stopping my horny ramblings now
