The only time that I have written something that in hopes of my T reading it was the details of the RA..after I intially disclosed it we talked about ways we can work through it. He told me a good idea would be to write it out.. I already had. He said that is good, then you could read it to me. I then said, or you could read it and he said it would be better for me to read it to him. So, that was my experience. That was a couple of months ago, and I bring it with me everytime I have an appointment. I would so much rather hand it to him than me read it!!