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Originally Posted by costello
Before you do that, try this. See if you can find a therapist and/or pdoc who takes both your mom's insurance and Medicare. Maybe even ask about Medicaid too since your mom is always threatening you, and it's over a year until your eligible for Medicare. Explain the situation briefly. You're right that you don't want to find a therapist you really like and then have to switch later because of insurance. But if they take both, they can just transition you if necessary.
First, though, try to identify some therapists or pdocs who seem good within driving distance. Do you have a reliable car? Be willing to drive a bit for the right person. My son's pdoc and therapist are 45 minutes from the house.
Don't get discouraged if you don't find someone right off, ok? You may have to talk to a number of people.
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im very very very scared of people
it may not seem so
but i am terrified.
BUT
about that first paragraph my dad is going to actually do that. like help me with that. and explain to them that.
i havent told my my mom about this disability stuff.
she has tried to ruin many many things for me in my life.
its a very serious thing she does. she has caused people shes known to lose their jobs and ruin marriages. its very serious. i used to think she was a sociopath. now i just think shes borderline.
not. kidding.
but its to the point where my dad agrees and even my pdoc that its best if i dont tell my mother about all this yet.
my mother has NOT been there for me as a child until i turned 20 years old and ....just ALL IN ALL shes not a good/healthy person.