She needed to go to the AA meeting, drunk or whatever. You need to go to Al-Anon and let AA take her to meetings. If I were she, I would (deep down) be better off if you didn't come with me to the AA meetings ... no matter what I say to you face-to-face.

My opinion, Sabrina.

I needed AA and a good group and the right sponsor to get sober. I was blessed, & I'm hoping for both your sakes she is too.

Many hugs, all best wishes, my continuing thoughts with you ...

Roadie