im 24 been to college when i was 21 when i didnt have a staring problem or extreme anxiety and mom has already payed for that weird *** crap lol .. sit there while someone feels sorry for you and tries to play pschology / beat around the bush lol i am unable to make eye contact and found myself dodging her face cuz she was trying to sneak her eyes in the path of mine like i was oblivious lol. she told me im fine i have social phobia and thats it ,she said people look away from me becase theyre scared of me when in fact theyre looking away because they dont want to be rude for ooking at aperson with a hyper focusing/dissasociation/anxiety problem.. sympathy is a very insulting thing to me, idont think anybody over the age of 13 needs or wants it, thats how i feel.. but thanks for response i appreciate it