Thanks all.. I know that he does do marriage counseling and I know that there are several others in the practice who do as well. It is something I am pondering. On one hand, I could see how it may effect my relationship with T negativley, I might get a little possesive of him. It might be hard having his focus being on my T and not me. On the other hand, I am not sure I could open up to another person in that way. T already knows all of my issues and I would have to rehash things.. Anyways, it is something I am thinking about asking T next time I see him.