What ever is right for you......is what is normal IMO, & societies push of everyone having to have sex is just WRONG.

Personally the guy I ended up married was someone who should have never gotten married.....he couldn't get out of his own head even though a nice person, nice & being a responsible husband are 2 different things also.

I'm with seeker.....even though I am not yet divorced (hoping that will happen very soon), I have no intentions of that opening up my path to the dating scene....the divorce is just to protect myself financially from his irresponsible actions. I enjoy my single life I have had since I left him 5 years ago & wouldn't even consider dating again.....freedom is the most wonderful feeling I have ever experienced.....& have no desire to ruin that.