Well since you are over 18, I would schedule myself an appointment with a totally different psych and a totally different therapist that way you can get the "moms 2 cents" out of the picture. Then it is just you and the pdoc and you and the therapist. Then you can work on your mom treating you like a person and like an adult and like her son instead of like you say she is treating you....

You need a correct dx and correct treatment......

get on that phone right now...look in the yellow pages, the internet, etc......

if you need help finding one lemme know.....

many hugs and sending some good luck your way