I recently celebrated my Birthday (sunday) and it was me and a few of my friends, as the night drug on the conversation turned to childhood and in my buzzed state i just blurted out I had been molested. My partner whipped her head around at me as to say , OMG why would you say that. It made me feel embarrassed and ashamed, my partner said that I probably made them uncomfortable. So they next day I wrote all of them apologizing for the disclosure. They all responded that it was ok, no worries, yet I spent the entire day in bed depressed yesterday, as my partner made me feel as though I did something terribly wrong. Its just part of my story and we were sharing. Now I feel like a foul and shes afraid people will pity me. Why did her reaction hurt me so badly? If they all said its ok, why cant i believe them and not her. ugh....