Divorce is never a thing of beauty. It is inherently heart breaking, stressful, disillusioning and painful. The only god thing is that it gets better after awhile. After my first husband had an affair and dumped me for someone else I felt that it was the end of the world. I found some divorce recovery classes at a large church that helped me get through. The trans parenting classes sound like a good idea. Maybe I would not have made such a mess of raising my daughter,

Eventually I met and married my now husband. It is challenging too, but at least I know that I have to really work on marriage if I am to succeed. Regardless life is a lot better now and I have grown a lot. When you are going through it though it seems like it never will be over. In the end life gets better, maybe not soon enough, but the only way is through it when the marriage is gone