Bluemountains, I have found that I have to be careful who I tell. My hubby is a minister, too, (United Methodist as well) and he is on disability due to bipolar. I also am bipolar! At any rate, he is trying to teach folks in churches as well as pastors about MI. Sorry this one hasn't gotten the message. Are you positive that's the reason you weren't hired and they don't invite you to things, though?