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Originally Posted by KazzaX
Uhg I hate it when they say "well just try harder". Like it is that simple. And it insinuates that you haven't been trying hard enough. But it sounds to me like you have been trying damn hard.
I just read where you said she said she was disappointed. Ouch!!! I would have gone off my head right then if it were me (but then again I have no self control, lol). She sounds like she is trying to be your critical parent or something - you know those people who tell you to "hit yourself with a stick - it'll toughen you up a bit" type thing.
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I have been reflecting some more on the session and I honestly can't remember if she said she was "dissapointed
in me" or "dissapointed
for me". Both mean quite different things. She may have even just said that she was "disappointed" which could mean either (or both).
I think T was just trying to encourage me by saying that I still have more in me and I that I really can do this. She never actually said "Retro, you need to just try harder" but that was my interpretation of the situation. I realise that says more about me and my insecurities than it does about T.