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I was worried about the same thing for a few reasons, so worried I asked the doctors to give me a c-section to avoid it. They didn't but they did give me the "love stitch" (extra stitch) which ended up not mattering. Instead of doing seperate stitches they did one long stitch like when you lace your shoe laces, and the stitches came out days after I was discharged from the hospital. Talk about pain! That's what happens when trainees deliver your baby and not an actual doctor.
Anyways... So after my daughter (although I was married at the time) I pretty much ruled out sex all together (I was planning leaving my ex) and about a year and a half later, and after of course leaving, I met my fiance. While he's not small, not large either. He's exactly what we in the US call average. My daughter was 8lbs 13.9oz, big baby, so you understand my concern? The stitches didn't even heal properly, I was so worried he wouldn't feel anything.
Eventually when we became sexually active I brought up my concern about it being that way and he said it wasn't like that at all. And often still mentions that it's far from "loose" as some would call. And I can't say that he lies because honestly it hurts me when we have sex, and it always feels like he's stabbing me in the stomach, not to mention feels like I'm being torn apart sometimes.
Although you can't expect it to be the exact same, it is, much like your skin, it can stretch for a little bit but after a few days it goes back to its normal size (and luckily for these few days you can't have sex anyways) Imagine you eat and gain 15 pounds in a week. Then you diet and drop the 15 pounds, your skin goes back to normal as the elasticity is still in good shape since it wasn't stretched out for a prolonged period and only a short period, I'd assume it's the same with child birth and the private region.
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