Hi Sugarcookie,
I was once in that position, too.
It seemed I was always discussing someone else's pains and hurts but somehow my hurts never got around to being mentioned. Even when I did bring it up it was basically brushed aside.
It makes you feel hurt and used.
If you're having seizers, you really need to see a doctor.
I hope that you're okay.
PM me if you need to talk.
((((((((Sugarcookie))))))))