I second what Peanut says. There has to be a boundry set because that isn't appropriate behavior. There is no point in talking to you about it or stuff in general if the attempt to stop the behavior isn't being made. Besides it is plain out rude.
Carrie

<font color=green>But the implicit and usually unconscious bargain we make with ourselves is that, yes, we want to be healed, we want to be made whole, we're willing to go some distance, but we're not willing to question the fundamental assumptions upon which our way of life has been built, both personally and societally.--Bill Plotkin, Soulcraft