I sat here reading all this, I was appalled at him. Would have thrown him in the first dumpster I could find!

I am not a skinny miny either. When I married my husband I weighed 60 pounds more than I do now. Yep! The highest weight I ever was. We've got our issues.

I didn't starve myself. Just ate smaller portions and walked and it took a long time to lose it. But the point is this......it shouldn't matter what size you are if someone loves you.

Nobody deserves to be treated/talked to like that. You just haven't found the right one yet.