I just talked with my sister on the phone. My mother is staying at her house while I am moving, etc. My sis says her nerves are frazzled and she can't handle it. The thing is: with both me and my sister, we've suffered the longterm consequences of growing up with Mom's parenting. In truth, being the oldest, I suffered the brunt of the abuse, but neither of us had a happy childhood.
I have been so happy to have sold my house, looking forward to moving to a smaller, cheaper place and getting out of debt. Also, decorating the place in a new and fresh way. This thing with my mom is a pall over me...casting a gray curtain of gloom.
Any suggestions about alternative care will be most welcomed!
Patty