You may have parked where some girlfriend or boyfriend usually parks their car and didn't even realize it.There had to be some reason besides wanting to bully someone for no reason.You could put a note on the garbage cans asking for an explanation and at least you would feel like you did something.When you give those people a dirty look at the movie that was all the excuse they needed to victimize you.Next time try moving first and then you won't give them a chance to annoy you any worse than they already have.I have been a victim and scapegoat my whole life too.I am learning ways to be ascertive.It is not easy but when I do it I feel better.They say we choose to be a victim.I don't think that is always true but we get so used to feeling like a victim that sometimes we bring it on without realizing.Venting here or with a councilor is a good idea.It takes a while to break the pattern....and there are bullies out there.I try to stay out of their way and if I can't I confront them in a nice way.
love,Patricia