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Originally Posted by bluemountains
It's not a money thing. She would be paying me a lot less.($8/hr) this isn't the first time my offerings have been dismissed in the past few weeks. I offered to work with our youth a couple of weeks ago and I was turned down then, too. I was told that they were going to ask her husband-an atheist, unless recently converted. I know that this might all be insecurities on my part, but I'm feeling pretty worthless here.
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You are NOT worthless! You have this rough path right now, not really any way out of it except to walk it. Could you try to offer discussion with the "friend" in a non-confrontational way?
No blame, no landmines, just "I've noticed my offerings have been turned down in past weeks. I feel dismissed, and this hurts because I value our friendship."
I don't think you're just being insecure, I think there are these things going on that some communication could possibly help you understand what their thinking is all about(?)
