GL, it seems to me that if there really was a problem they woul have got back to you with some urgency.

But someone worrying that they have cancer is not disrespectful at all.

My mum died from breast cancer. Her risk factors were smoking while being on the Pill in the 70s. So I'm fairly certain that I have no more risk factors than most. But she would want anyone who was scared about it to get some certain answer. It's much more disrespectful to diss someone who is worried about it. At least they are checking themselves and taking the necessary steps.

But if I were you, GL, I'd just want an answer. Keep pushing till you get one, but in the meantime think positive .... kia kaha ... be strong.

xx