I set them all up and forget to take them. My husband reminds me when I'm doing okay, if he doesn't feel to bad. He remembers when I'm doing bad or he's okay. I remember when he's bad So, we tend to flip flop on who brings breakfast in bed w/ meds. I always have to remind him to take his night meds but that's easy because when our son goes to bed at 10 pm I remind him.