Relationships, all of them are worth it for me. The successful ones, and the failed ones both. From the successes I gain friends, and have had gfs and from the failed ones, I learned many things about myself and others. I've learned from my failed marriages (2 - and one I'm currently still waiting on the divorce being completed) I've learned the most. I know what I don't want in a wife now. I know that I tend to give myself to women that control my life and now, more than ever, I know what I'm looking for.. so yeah I want to get out there again, but with more wisdom than ever. So welcome relationships, even though it's scary, the ups and downs and comings and goings of new people is always something you'll grow from, it's definitely worth it Hope this helps