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(((lou))) just hang in there. Your husband knows about your diagnosis right? You wont ruin it with him and explaining to the children (although not necessarily in detail) that you're sick so when you make a mistake they will understand. Perhaps give them a code word they can use when you're not acting yourself and have a plan of action or something to help you calm down or walk away.
As far as finances, maybe tell your fiance to take full control so you don't pay twice or miss payments or anything like that. Not all of us (as I'm not) are blessed with a good bill paying part. If anything I'm the opposite and no one else wants to do the job.
Things will get easier, I know it's hard but it will get better. Take care of yourself
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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