Even if he cried, even if he apologized, even if he loves you, this is unsafe. I had to end a friendship with a woman a long time ago because I could no longer go to her house because of her abusive bf, who beat her and threatened to beat me, too, when I tried to help her. They both apologized to me and said it would never happen again. But I was scared of them both after that incident.

this is not safe. I am concerned about you both.

I hope you can both get some help and/or separate.

You guys don't deserve to go on this way.

Billi