it hurts when they leave me and my kids out. i do not ask for much just to see them and be apart of them and everything they do. and for them to be apart of us too. my mom said i live to far and cost too much money and my sister said we live on both side of the city. what a hour away from eachother. that does not brother me one bit. you are right blutton for pain. i should turn my back. thanks.