The tip-off to this guy was EZ. He seemed to have been watching and waiting for me and listening for me to open my door. But you also know what worked even better? That facts that: 1) he is planning our marriage, 2)he would like to get me pregnant, and 3) he got too touchy feely. He knew that I was trying to protect myself because my body was stiff and tight--he noticed and commented on it (and laughed), but still persisted with touching places he shouldn't. I was almost afraid to go home last night that he'd try to visit again (he said he would) or that he'd try and stop me in the hall. I finally came back home last night about 11pm. Who do you think met me as I was arriving up the stairs? I assume that your first guess is correct--HIM. It was brief and only in the hall at the bottom of the stairs. He tried to smooth things over and slid a note under my door saying that he's sorry for going too far and he will always love my person, blah blah. It was pretty short, just enough to make him "appear" nicer. There are security issues as well that I am not comfortable with.