Didn't mean to spark an anxiety attack! I meant "take care of yourself emotionally" not "take a shower." Don't bathe if you don't want to.

Look around you, newtus. All kinds of people find partners. My younger son doesn't shower enough. And he's a real jerk to girls. But they're falling all over themselves to be with him. Go figure!

But if you take care of yourself emotionally, you'll be more likely to get into an emotionally healthy relationship.