Hi. I've hesitated to post because I've always thought I've had a good relationship with T and I don't want to disrespect her...
That said, who do I run to when I'm upset with the person I run to when I'm upset?
Forgive me for being vague, but, basically, I have trust issues, abandonment issues, and I'm hypersensitive to rejection. I've been with T now for about 15 months and she knows all this - as well as knowing everything I can think to tell her. I don't lie to her. If anything I feel I've been honest to a fault (sometimes in writing if I couldn't bring myself to say it).
I emailed her after session this week, what I thought was a pretty innocuous message, but she took something I said entirely wrong and asked if I hadn't been telling her the truth. I sent two responses, one explaining, and the other a little passive aggressive - I was feeling very hurt. She hasn't replied.
I don't know what to do with this. I can't believe she thinks I would bulls**t her like that - over something small - after EVERYTHING I've trusted her with.
What do I do now? Do I send another email? Do I call? Do I wait for her to contact me? What if she doesn't?
Last edited by Anonymous33425; Aug 09, 2012 at 09:07 PM.
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