Thanks Nightlight, it probably isn't as bad as I think. I really hope! Thanks for being a voice of calm and reason...

Tigergirl, thanks. I think I will try and speak with her tomorrow.

Thanks farmergirl, it has only been a day... she may not have checked her inbox, or maybe she wants me to cool down... I don't think I can leave this 'til next week, though - I hate leaving things in a negative place...

Thanks for the feedback... 'A problem shared...' and all that. It seemed much worse in my head.