Sometimes I think that no one would have batted an eye - after all, we have a cross-dresser on the team, and that is OK. But I am afraid. Because mental illness (in San Francisco) is more marginalized than cross-dressing. In other parts of the countries, probably the same, they are probably on the same footing, but not in SF. So I am afraid. And, possibly, my boss is afraid and some geeks are, too - I cannot believe all of those geeks are normal w/o dx; give me a break. So everyone is in hiding until what?