If you don't think your counselor really cares, then confront them with that thought/perception/feeling. It's perfectly okay to tell them something like "you remind me of all the other people in my life who appear not to care", then see where it goes. The beauty of therapy is that it is an artificial relationship - by that, I mean you are meeting with someone who you likely would not have met in real life, who you don't have to respond to on a daily basis, etc. Therefore, practice in therapy what you are having trouble with in "real life". I have been on both sides of the couch (as a clinician and a patient). As a clinician, I always would appreciate it when a patient/client was brutally honest with me about my skills.

I do wish you well...and that was a great idea to block your aunt's texts.