yikes... planning your wedding! Let him know that if he keeps this up he may be planning his wedding your frying pan... to his head.

Seriously just be careful. He might be harmless but annoying but no reason to give him the opportunity to prove otherwise. Keep your door locked, keep pepper spray on you if you have it, maybe keep it in your hand when you come home just in case.

Do make it clear to him that you are uncomfortable and that he has to stop. Be specific if you can. If that doesn't help do you have someone you can have talk to him, friend or family member, I'm thinking large guy if you've got... I am against any sort of violence but it might not be bad to put a scare into him if it is necessary.

Your goal here should be not only to get him to stop annoying you and stop doing things that scare you... but to have you convinced that he has sincerely stopped so that you don't feel uncomforatble in your own home.

Let us know what happens. Hope it all turns out well.

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