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Aug 10, 2012, 05:47 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Well, first I would NOT go on a weekend fling. If your husband found out (and they always do somehow) it would hurt him beyond imagining. He doesn't deserve this. Secondly, I think I'd get some counseling for myself and then after the therapist decided, I'd bring my husband into the sessions. You both need counseling and badly. You're not communicating and that's a BIG problem in marriage. Neither one of you are mind-readers, so you don't know what each other is thinking or wants. You can't have a marriage like that. Make the appt. for counseling as soon as possible, and STOP talking to the 'old friend.' You must try to save your marriage. If you don't do everything you can to save it, you'll regret it in the future, believe me.
I wish you the very best. Please take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee 
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