I just renewed our vows with my husband a few months ago. I pretty much did all the planning on my own. He didn't help with much. I found the location, I picked out the cake and cupcakes, I got his clothes and my boys' clothes. I do have to say that my mother-in-law helped out a bunch. She helped pick out and make the centerpieces, and did most of the decorations. As beautiful as everything turned out, I was very glad to see the night over.

I know how hard it is to be stressed. I always try to take on too much and get beyond overwhelmed. Then I just fall apart and am completely useless. I wish you luck in your wedding planning. See if your man would be willing to help any. But I know that I like to make sure things are done right, then I have to do it myself.