I am just going to butt in here and say something. I have known you for a long time (((((Tomi))))) and I will probably be thumped for saying this...I am going to point out a couple of things that stood out from your post....

......"I'm sorry, PC is well within my boundaries. I have a right to be here. She doesn't, especially when the intent was there from the very beginning of their relationship. This isn't an assumption on my part. It's fact."......

I have a problem with this...why does she not have a right to be here?

I also have to mention the words you are calling her Dad...I know if I were her and I read what you are writing about her Dad...I would be a tad bit upset...

I guess what I am trying to figure out is that John is with her...bottom line. When it is just the 2 of them - they may have a terrific relationship...in all honesty - no one knows what they have except them. I had a peek at her myspace.com site and all I read there is how much she loves her kids and John. It just makes me wonder about it all.

I hope I didn't hurt your feelings Tomi....I have been following some of the posts and started thinking back to when we first met If you want to know ...alot of this is reminding me somewhat of Karla. Do you think there could be some connection between it all? Just some food for thought.