Hey Christy <
I can understand you're concerns. When I first found this lil piece of heaven I was very worried about someone finding me .. Now ? Nope... the chances of someone finding me with all the probably thousands of sites like this ,, well you get the picture .
I put my real picture up months ago.
For me this is a place to find support love and the ability to rant whine ***** cry and as always a place to laugh when you thought it was impossible.
My advice to you ... Share what your comfortable to do so .