Planning a wedding can definately take on a life of it's own. Don't let it! Make it very simple. Let others help.

We didn't have a wedding when we first got married almost 16 yrs ago and I regretted it. Had open heart surgery Aug 07 and as I layed in intensive care i remember hubby saying when you get out of here you can have our wedding. I remembered that!

In 08 we had our wedding. It started stressing me out big time starting to plan it. A couple ppl asked to help and I let them. I had to let it be more simple and have help. It turned into a beautiful day I enjoyed.

Remember you want to enjoy the day and not be totally stressed out.