Me too on the grandmother - I adored her and even better, she liked me.

I did not like the book, but more because I thought it went a bit to far into forcing someone into a victim/childish mentality. I am not saying that is how it should be for anyone but me and I am very glad the book has helped all the people it seems to have touched. I think it is worth a shot to work with it and see how it feels to you.