I think it's all relative, we each have our own reality or past and by comparison although one may appear worse then the other, the truth is they may be percieved as just as destructive to the individuals. There are many people on here who had it worse them me and some who seems to have had it better. But all that doesn't matter as we are all here in search of something thats missing. That missing piece may be healing from childhood for some or words of encouragement and direction for others. I am amazed each day by the broad spectrum of PC and it's ability to assist anyone and everyone on their journey.