Being submissive is about being firced to relax, to let go on control & being sure that someone else will take your reigns. Daddy/daughter roles often come from a need for strong nurturing & to have someone to shape your life and/or mind, or to simply be treasured. Even desiring to be hurt or choked has a lot to do with a need for the endorphin rush or to feel powerless, perhaps because you are taking on too much in your "regular" life.

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