Were you raised mostly by a female? Do you have any brothers? The reason I ask is often it is not hormone it is upbringing. I know several men who were raised by a female (mom) and dad was simply not around much. It does affect how you develop interests and how you behave with others. My own 2 boys are not so masculine. No doubts about there sexuality though. Straight as arrows. I personally am drawn to a man who lacks masculinity. I want to feel understood and most men are not capable of that. Those reared by there mother or another influential female do seem to have more understanding type qualities. I hope this has helped some. Good luck with this.