I don't think that makes you gay. In other countries out side of the USA, it is not uncommon practice for a man to have sex with another man. Not because he likes men but because women are for creating children with. Sex w/ men to "Alleviate Stress", sex with your wife because you love her or want children w/ her. You did not like sex w/ a man, you obviously like women. Gay I think not. Fetish certainly. Like **** stimulation, thats acceptable for a man w/ out making you gay. After finding the right woman and having intercourse your opinion may change. Don't rush a relationship just to find out. Take your time. Find the right girl and she may be open to this. "YOU NEVER KNOW." I've been married 18 years to the same man. "YOU NEVER KNOW"