I know I'm different. I have been abused and overpowered by more then my fair share of men. I look for a calmer & gentler man. I envy some of my friends whose men like to shop, like to look good, don't mind taking the car to the oil shop for an oil change. I live in a part of VA that is very excepting of everything. It's like Woodstock 1960's around here. Open sex, communal living, gay/lesbian relations well accepted. Drag, & trans is part of every day life. I don't choose that, but have been exposed to it forever. So guys who don't like shop classes in school and choose cooking instead is widely accepted. Your identity is not defined by the amount of sex you do and don't have and with who. You are great because of who you are.

Again I prefer this kind of man. Women always complain about a man not showing his feminine side. I personally like calm gentle men. I am sure in alot of cases you find yourself in a friendship role. I hate that for you. It is not fair because you do not fit the average mold. You should not be judged for femininity. I can recall so many of my male acquaintances who have very feminine attributes that I would have liked to pursue a different other than friendship type of relationship. (Not now that I married) Hopefully the right girl will come along who love you for your qualities.