I second what Chopin said - my T openly acknowledges her human-ness, and that's probably one of the things I like best about her. She's not perfect, she's made mistakes, she's pissed me off, and we've worked through it all, strengthening our relationship in the process.

I put previous Ts on a pedestal, and it was devastating when they showed their human side. I mean, they were infallible! Glad I know better now, and loved this article!