Is it the memories of past issues or could it possibly be the emotions of release (Big O)
that have gotten there wires crossed. Release and relief that follows are often the same type of let down. Not let down like "that sucks", but let down of setting emotions free. I can understand emotions from past memories. I was raped at one point in time. It had an impact on my sex life for a while, for years actually. I learned to turn that off and enjoy but sometimes my signals would get crossed and I would cry after good sex. Weird. That was a long time ago. After sex with the same person for a long time I don't do that anymore either.