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Aug 11, 2012, 09:35 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Well, I sure can't tell you to STAY, although I guess in the other post I did, didnt' I . LOL But what are you going to do with the kids? Is it really fair to take them away from their dad? Or won't they care? Will HE care? See, the kids are ALWAYS the ones who get hurt in these things.  Always. We THINK they'll be able to handle it, but stuff always comes up and bites us in the butt, whether it's behavior problems, or depression, or whatever. They always get hurt.
I know you're unhappy where you are, but please think long and hard about these kids before you do anything, because what you do CAN affect them LONG into their adulthood, believe me. My granddaughter is struggling now due to her parents' breakup, and she's been in counseling for many months now -- and she's STILL struggling. She has an excellent counselor, but there's lots of work to do.
So think long and hard. I wish you the very best. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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