i think with any life-changing decision, you must look at all your options and decide what is best FOR YOU!!! i think it is good to get others' opinions and to RESEARCH all your acceptable possibilities. most of all, try to be honest with yourself first...then others . . . .

"to thine ownself be true" says it best . . . i think lacking that type of self-honesty & expression may be the cause of depression. (((Huggs)))