LostAngel0616:
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Yeah, I guess I'm that woman that when you tell her she can't, it becomes a personal vendetta to do it. Screw her, I'm more powerful than she thinks I am.
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I'm vaguely reminded of my encounter with the guy who's now my m-doc ... back in 1991. It resulted in my giving up cigarettes for good, and all because he made me
that mad! Whatever does it, gofortit
. I hope you and me share "that" special kind of anger that can occasionally be turned to the productive. The nice term is sheer, stubborn willpower.
May I very gently suggest that you
consider giving the couples therapy a try-out? Give it a six-session run, then examine where you're at. If nothing else you, individually, may benefit ... get a chance working with the therapist at the sessions (even with your partner there, assuming the T's any good) to strengthen your
personal focus on things ...
Just a thought ...
Roadie