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Originally Posted by Bear_Spirit
I would like to know when you as an amateur/ordinary person can begin to suspect that a woman which have a pattern of being emotionally unstable, when that crosses over to be a full borderline diagnosis?
For me those things are always very difficult to know, and although Wikipedia DSM IV page has the so called criterias, it is still difficult to know, so I am wondering a little about that.
When can you really suspect that a woman suffers from borderline diagnosis?
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I was with an emotionally unstable woman for six years and the first thing that sparked my suspicions were the constant calls and texts and needs. SHe would constanly text and if I was working she would ring my phone in work or email me to find out why I didn't answer her call. If we fought she would threaten suicide, lock herself in the bathroom with pills. She controlled who I spoke with and who my friends were. She checked my emails and phone to make sure I wasn't cheating constantly, she very insecure because she cheated all the time. She would cut herself and pull her hair out if I threatened to leave and actually refused to give my car keys back so I couldn't leave the house. There are many different signs but they are just a few